TT: How to Build Rapport With Any Chick, Anywhere, In 30 Minutes

Cortez talks about how you need to avoid logical stuff and talk about things that bring out feelings and emotions.

TT: How to Build Rapport With Any Chick, Anywhere, In 30 Minutes

She has to FEEL you two are soulmates, like she knows you forever.

When it happens fast, you hear following from her: ''Oh my God I don't know why I'm telling you this, I don't even know you..''

What happened?
She FEELS she knows me better then her best friend and her logical brain supplies her with information ''You don't know this guy''!

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And yes, rapport gets you girl!

NOW THE FOLLOWING TEXT IS FOR GUYS WHO WANT RAPPORT FAST:

Attraction is naturally created between people.
With deep raport you will get her. If not first time you see her, second or third you will. She will remember you as someone special and think of you all the time. Good rapport brings the chick to you.

What to do to get in rapport, guys:

- Relax. It is important. RELAX. Nervous guys, don't drink coffeine, don't look around like you escaped from jail. Act like youre alone in the most comfortable place on Earth. Make that place existant in your imagination if you have never been in a place like that.

- Avoid everyday chat (weather, school, job, newspapers, movies..) you will need weeks to get rapport with that.

- Skip the usual introductions and talk with her like she is your twin sister, in fact even more openly than you would with your twin sister

- Go deep (share some emotions with her, talk about yourself (example: how you fell in love first time when you were 5 years old, how you had a rabbit and he was your friend and when he died you were very sad and felt vulnerable..)

- Listen when she follows with her deep story. Leave coments aside. Don't interrupt with: ''That's good!'', ''That's funny'', ''Oh that's so bad for you''. Just listen. Don't criticise or judge her whatever she says. Never involve in discussion. If you do so you're pushing her away. If you 'agree' with her or 'approve' her actions you loose trust from her. Just listen. Ask question if something is not clear to you. When you finish asking, shut up and listen her for a while. You must NOT become her cushion. It happens in 15 mins - 2 hours, only in special situations longer. Dont make it long. If you make it long without steping forward (kiss), there is a danger of becoming a friend, or even worse, marriage material.

- Don't try hard to find common things between you two. Do it more like you're just informing yourself about her and her about your thoughts, or even better, you're just thinking loudly, with no specific objective.

-Don't give her eye contact too much. Save it's power for later. Give it more and more in moments before kiss, and make a last one longer.

-Cube and similar techniques can work if used on right place in right time and by skilled person. I prefer something else [HE PREFERS TO ADD SOMETHING MORE]: use experience to explain how she feels or what she thinks or why she behaved in such way in such occasion. That adds HUGE amounts of rapport, it's quicker and less borring.

Newbies, above text is gold , I'm writing it for you instead of sleeping so *pay* *fuckin* *attention*. Re-read, apply and get that girl!

This makes sense from the Austin PUA Summit 2005, where FireFly mentioned how we get easily affected by things we see in a movie or tv (a form of hypnosis) . A sad melodramatic scene tends to make us sad (to some extent) and this works even more strongly on the females.

Essentially, you have to bring about lots of different kinds of "emotions" and "feelings" with the rapport.. in the conversation you have and/or in the stories you tell.

Another recent shift in the RSD Camp heading more towards Rapport / Stories v/s Routines.

My wing Maverick mentioned that his most recent RSD Bootcamp in NYC (his 2nd RSD in a few months), the guys made him drop all routines and go into real stories. But, they gave a few tips on how to story tell. Make the female visualize, imagine and feel the story... by stimulating the feelings of all of the 5 senses. [ Girls do this all the time when they read novels / books.. they love to imagine things]

- Sight
- Sound
- Smell
- Touch / Feel
- Taste

You can trigger them to visualize the story as it had happened, thereby bringing associative feelings by being descriptive on these 'aspects' of the story.

e.g. The 5 of us walked in and it was brightly lit place with neon lights all over the place. It was silent to begin with until we heard this sound on the floor "bam bam bam" and turned around. There was a sweet but eerie smell in the air that passed over as a cool breeze giving goosebumps but we felt this dryness in our mouth and our throat.

Another article on rapport....... Confident Rapport versus Insecure Rapport.

All you need is rapport: confident rapport.

So what’s the difference between insecure rapport and confident rapport?
It comes down to your inner beliefs.

Do you believe she's going to listen and like what you have to say about yourself. You should. In fact she should be hanging on every word you say because you believe she needs you.

If you have that inch of doubt, that means you believe she isn't ATTRACTED to you, and you need to build the attraction then. But what if you didn't have that doubt?

Girls can smell confidence, and they can definitely detect any insecurity. They will see the confidence you have in yourself when you are straight forward and you just assume they will like you. And they WILL respond positively. Remember an inch of doubt and you're dead in the water.