TT: Use of compliment openers - Using necklace, jewellery or something as an opener

Some varying and effective ways of using a small compliment opener.

One strong post on that thread by Magnus.

I use compliments as openers all the time.

For an effective compliment opener, I will

1. Compliment her - "nice dreadlocks", "cool shoes", "I like your earrings",
in a totally casual, confident, non-reaction seeking way. I even made this
work in Austin with "nice breasts".

2. Backturn, turn back to your friend, look away, disregard. If it's a
server at a bar I'll roll right into ordering without waiting for a response
"cool-earrings-could-I-have-three-pints-of-Ale-please"

3. Wait for her to re-open. Depending on how you turn away she'll tug on
your arm or swing into view.

This works on any chick, but you have to calibrate for hotness and
bitchiness, and the way they respond is different too.

Note that if you compliment mid-game, the correct structure for a compliment
is

1. Compliment "that's a great scarf, milady"
2. Qualify the compliment "it matches well your mascara and shoes, I like
that"
3. Challenge her or enquire "did you choose it yourself?"

I have to thank Geoff for introducing me to part 3, I guess RSD teach it
now.

1 compliment... "You're very confident"
2 qualify... "I like that in a girl"
3 challenge... "How did you get to be like that?"

When she re-opens you from the compliment opener, you can continue with this
compliment structure, or disregard the thread and run an opinion opener.

Magnus

Another variation..

from: sandworm@attbi.com sandworm@attbi.com
(first login: July, 15, 2002 11:59 PM)
date: Thursday, April 28, 2005 06:31 PM

On 4/26/05 10:22:00 AM, Peta wrote:
>Finally I've put it in
>writing...so know I can
>explain it too others how I
>use compliment openers...

Try what I call the "implied" compliment.

Rather than complimenting her directly as in saying, "I think you have class and style" say instead, "I really
admire women with class and style, so I just had to say hi"

The difference is, to process this, she has to think
to herself, "he thinks I have class and style". She has to
ACTIVELY have the thought for herself, instead of
just passively listening with a wall up.It's like
a Trojan Horse that gets inside her defenses.

Whether she accepts it as being true for her,
at least she accepts that YOU really mean it.

RJ
http://www.seduction.com/resources.asp

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