TT: Shrugging is Powerful - The use of a simple body movement into something very powerful - THE SHRUG

Dimitri talks about how "easy" and "powerful" a simple shrug can be. Just shrug it off. Whatever a female says can be easily, nicely, politely and powerfully be shrugged off.

http://www.bristollair.com/bestlayreports/youreacelebrityneatletsfuck/

At one point, she says something about it having been a while, I say that must be hard on a girl "like her", and she says, "Well, I've got my vibrator." I shrug.

**By the way, I shrug *a lot*.

Shrugging is your friend in pickup.

- Shrug when you get shit-tested,
- shrug when a woman says a statement that most guys would latch on to and get excited like talking about her vibrator or minor hooking up with another girl (if it seems like she's just trying to cock tease and it's not legit, anyway),
- shrug when she asks a stupid question,
-shrug... whenever you want.

Shrugging is powerful.**

BTW - Hats off for persistence on this LR after getting pushed out of her place and then going back to her late at night using a "tuck you in" excuse. He shrugs again.. and overcomes a whole bunch of shit tests.

She asks if I'm a virgin, I laugh at her.

She asks how old I am, I tell her. She asks for ID to prove it. I laugh at her.

She continues shit-testing me, *hard*.

"Your feet smell so bad."
"Your beard looks terrible. You need to cut it."
"You've got earrings. Why you have earrings?"
"You should wash your clothes more."

Stuff like that. Shrugged at the first two, ran some cocky/funny at the third, called her a retard playfully on the fourth.

The Ultimate Shit Test: The "Penis Size" Shit Test

Then there was, "You've got such a small nose... Chinese girls tell by nose size if a man has a big penis or not. You have small penis." She holds up her fingers about five inches apart.

I nod emphatically. "Very small. Two inches long". I hold up my fingers in a ridiculously short amount (credit: ijjji). She then qualifies me on my penis, "No, it must be bigger than that", then realizes that she just qualified me on my penis size and then cringes just a tiny bit. It's awesome and hilarious to observe, especially since I understand much of the reasoning behind it.

Some debriefing after the lay and he is still shrugging.... :). Props to Dimitri.

Anyway, some really good sex and crazy positions I'd never tried before later, she's cuddled up to me and we're both naked. We talk about some stuff, and I decide to ask a brief debriefing question.

Dimitri: When did you know you wanted to make love with me?
HBWhitestilettos: When you knocked on my door this night.
Dimitri: Not yesterday?
HBWhitestilettos: No, not even this afternoon.
Dimitri: Ah.
HBWhitestilettos: When did you know? I pause for a moment.
Dimitri: Hmm... about five seconds before we did it.
HBWhitestilettos looks taken aback for a moment (continue being the prize even after the lay, guys).
HBWhitestilettos: Not when you were giving me massage even? I shrug.

I ask her about her sex history a little in terms of if she always uses condoms, how long it's been since her last fuck, and if she gets tested. I implicitly social proof myself accidentally when she inquires why I'm asking, and I say, "I always ask."