PUA - Where is the Artist? Where is the Art? All I see is numbered coloring books & copycats.

I was commenting on the post titled "The Hunt" by Cristina who is one of Tynans Angels. Ty.. as he's more commonly known among the close brotherhood in Austin was the famous infamous Herbal..

This is what I commented and then I had a few follow on thoughts I wanted to capture.. Some thoughts I had before the GAME came into my life like a whirlwind..

Let me put it this way. Its not about guys hitting on girls for sex & girls hating them for just doing that.

Look at it this way.. Guys & Girls both want to have sex. The thing is.. what if we were a HEDONISTIC society. SEX was a free for all like shaking hands and not looked down upon.

THEN what would people be craving? Then they would get bored of sex and be craving something else that would make them feel GOOD. GOOD ENERGY, POSITIVE ENERGY from other things.. drinking, dancing, teasing etc.

Thats what we as HUMAN BEINGS.. feed on. Good energy.

When ANYONE goes out with the intent of having a fun night they want this POSITIVE ENERGY.. by themselves (alone), with their friends and those times when you bump into FUN people.

There are times when a girl would go out with the intent of dressing down & not talking to anyone.. and she sees this Smart Fun guy with a great ENERGY (it is ENERGY PLAY AFTER ALL) (whether or not he is surrounded by Fraternity AFCs or Lotsa HBs is a separate issue).

The question is DOES THAT ENERGY DRAW HER IN? The same happens when I go out.. with the intent to have fun.. FUN PERIOD. If there is a group of guys or girls or both who are having a good time.. and I FEEL THEIR ENERGY.. It draws me in.. and if they feel mine.. it draws them in. Its about ENERGY PLAY.

As Juggeler & SocialHitchiker say.. Dont value people on their outer shields.. peer inside to know who they are. But, if you dont bring in a POSITIVE VIBE to begin with.. well in the ancient times.. you would get pelted with stones.

PEOPLE RESPOND TO YOUR ENERGY & VIBE. Guys, Girls, Old people, TSA Employees at the Airport (Did I say on an average when I travel from Source Taxi to Destination Taxi I’ll push positive energy into atleast 5-10 people..).

Life is mundane when you look at it as ROUTINE. You can make anything and everything POSITIVE.. and ENERGIZED if you really looked at it more CREATIVELY. Get out of your head.. and think like CALIVIN (CALVIN & HOBBES).

Thats my philosophy.

(Damn.. that was good.. Maybe I should post this on my blog & start a workshop for side income.. LOL!. Nah.. I dont have the time.. maybe some day)

I would look at it this way..

WHAT IF SEX WAS A GIVEN? WHAT IF YOU ALREADY HAD SEX? What would you want next.. What would you want with your partner (long term, short term or ONS)?

You would love to share great ENERGY.. positive energy. This can be a non-proportional mix of fun, shared humour, chemistry, charming conversations, deep / wide conversations / rapport, some teasing, some playground antics, or a deep conversation on spirituality & meditation etc.. Share the love of food, some exotic beach, whatever.. or a quaint little coffeshop or bookstore.

That is KEY. Sex is a biological filler.. (Which is a lot of fun.. which adds "substances" into your body & mind.. I forget what its called.. Seratonin, dopamine..) and allows people to CONNECT more.. since that is when you are VERY VERY naked.. and OPEN.. not just physically but emotionally, mentally & spiritually..

They are all facilitators & indicators of LIFE - Not one of existance.

If all the people understood this.. it would be amazing. If I could teach that to all the potential 'genetically' good looking / women in my life.. that would be so fulfilling. But, not everyone tries to go there.

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That is the ART. Art of bringing positive energy (physical, mental, emtional, spiritual) into the people you interact with.

An artist is someone who experiments and enjoys the ART.. is not bound by stencils.. its for the love of the art, the creative process & juices.. the love of the subject (the target) and the shared energy & feeling of that instance of art..

In today's PUA world.. I dont see a lot of ARTISTS. I see a lot of COPYCATS. I see a lot of so called established artists that make an abandon a painting for the sake of a sale. They are stuck to their stencils...

That is not an ARTIST. Be an artist not a copy cat.