FR: 8/19-8/21 : 3 nights - AMAZING REALIZATIONS!!! - Part I

FR: 8/19-8/21: 3 nights AMAZING REALIZATIONS - Part I!

FR: 8/19-8/21 Thu, Fri, Sat - 3 nights of mayhem, improvement, REALIZATIONS

THURSDAY:

Wings: Sol, Oscar, Zanther
Usual Thursday night at downtown S Jose. Tired but just pushing myself to be out there.

Did not open a lot of sets. Tried to sort of wing the sets Oscar opened. Some sets Oscar made me open.

Opened a bunch of sets where each time I somehow got bored and ejected (or they got bored of me).

At the end I was forced to open a few sets... Sol just put me in front of a single female.. I was surprised but so was she. but she smiled.. i smiled.. said some crap.. she was not interested..

My State was low... and it SHOWS. The thing is ...IT IS NOT WHAT YOU OPEN WITH.. IT IS HOW YOU PROJECT A POSITIVE VIBE..

A female can sense your state... If you go out make sure you have fun..

FRIDAY:

Wings: Oscar, Zanther

State a little better as I dont have to work tomorrow. We head to the Marina and do a few sets here n there..

SET X: 2 females Oscar opens using some opener and i step in after a bit, engage and distract the other female for quite a bit using open ended Qs.. and some ok humour.. Held her for a bit.. they were both from Chicago and one was visiting one had recently moved.

NOTE:
I noticed that the best reaction we got from them was when the focus was not on them but when Oscar & I talked about something turned in and out.. taking that attention away and back.. away and back...

FACT is .. I think this is what brought the wing dynamics game to another level..on Saturday

SET LARGE: Mixed Huge 10+ people.

The interesting set I remember as being positive memory to some extent was with this huge set when we were crossing a street and waiting for the light..

huge set of white HBs with equal or less number of guys.. probably 10+ people..

no specific target... i just exclaim.. without turning body towards them - wow.. looks like u guys got some kind of high school reunion going on.. and a bunch of people react w different things.. yes.. blah blah.. this one female.. reacts more.. as we are crossing.. she is like... being loud and having fun.. im like.. how old are you..? (with a inquisitive look)... shes like 23.. im like ..no way.. ur lying arent u.. cmon... u sound like a little high school girl...who recently graduated (i say it with a playful friendly vibe..) she starts to qualify.. walks all the way up to me.. follows me.. (still crossing road).. i bust her a bit playfully.. shes like i'll show u my ID.. im like thats ok.. (some fluff) she takes out her id and gives it to me.. i look at it and then her.. smile and playfully.. say i cant believe this.. where did u get this fake id.. hehe..

i mix in some conversation with the guys & other people to be-friend.. (this was a very distributed set.. no one walking close to each other.. people coming in left & right to pull her distract her and others.. )... i say.. hey guys.. she should be careful.. ive seen her id.. and her address.. what if i stalk her.. etc.. i play that for a bit.. u know u got to be smarter than that.. i could be stalking her 24 hours a day now... hehe.. AFCs reply.. u probably not that kind.. im like what if i was.. what if it was some other guy... they dont CB anymore..

their entire set was moving and so was i.. and she is walking near me.. w me still disapproving her.. and her qualifying.. i am like.. u know what ..ur so cute.. i'll just adopt u for a little sister and hold her by the waist as we walk.. she is close to me holding one.....then i stop and say.. u know what since ur my little sister.. u can take me shopping.. shes like she cant afford to.. and she spends a lot so i shouldnt.. im like thats alright.. i just need her to help me choose stuff etc..

run some more playful stuff on her... she was a JOY to talk to.. playful... of course with the huge number of her male & female CB friends... who were coming from every direction... she left w a smile... it was FUN.. hehe..

THEN i turn to look around as I had walked a block or so with her... leading the way... (her friends had been left behind and so were my wings... ) I couldnt find my wings until 2 mins later when i see them walking way behind... far..

I walk back to them.. and we debrief..

AFTERTHOUGHTS:

Maybe Oscar could have helped eliminate the CBs or in fact drag in and engage some HBs from the group.. cause holding such a group on the street ..tough.. esp when they were heading in different directions..

I did not target her as such.. she happened to be the one in the group that responded .. so I said.. okay.. lets play.. :)

Oscar ? Advise ?

I think this kind of a thing gets me going.. the effect was obvious on Saturday...

did a lot of de-briefing with Oscar during drive to SF and back...mistakes..interests..successes.. it was great.. Oscar is the coolest guy from the LAIR... whole lotta fun..

I learnt one thing.. a wing and you must be like buddies... know each other.. else u might not appear congruent.. and because u dont know each other.. u wont vibe together.. I learnt quite a bit about Oscar and stuff.. and we shared our interest on EXOTIC DARK HAIRED women... hehe..

Saturday night report is a whole lot better.