inner state thoughts can be used to induce / repeat a positive inner state experienced previously..

A wing of mine "smove_move" was telling me about some random thoughts jotted down. He keeps a notepad with him to log things and thoughts that he experiences... There are some females at his university who are into him and he is not really into them.. but went up to them just for the heck of it... What he noticed was since he was not at all into them or concerned of the outcome he was in a "PERFECT" state.. so after he was done he jotted down the things he "experienced" when he was out there.. things that described his thought/state at the time:

- i am a fun and funny person, i am curious to meet me
- i am indifferent of the outcome
- whatever i want i go after, whatever i go after i get, whatever i dont get, then its probably not worth having anyways
- i am calm, cool, confident and controlled
- i am an outgoing person and i seek the experience not the outcome
- i dont need to seek validation, i dont need public opinion - it means nothing to me
- i decide if people are worthy of my attention, i validate them
- knowing and believing in yourself - that you are talented, successful, lucky and that you are a great catch... - David DeAngelo - "if you believe you are lucky then you will be lucky, you will get lucky"

The "tough one" is to HAVE THAT BELIEF ALL THE TIME.

Basically, these inner state thoughts can be used to induce / repeat a positive inner state experienced previously..