A good way to improve is by performing exercises on your "inner state"

26 and Dangerous... I think they way Dangerous mentioned "inner state" development in this post by some exercises is how one should improve oneself.



From: twentysix
Date: Saturday, May 22, 2004 12:27 PM

Sunday: Dangerous and twentysix (me) roll our daytime game.
This is a collaborative FR.
26s comments begin and end with: ***

Dangerous starts the FR with a beautiful interlude - gracefully composed:

Its Sunday mid-morning moving towards afternoon up North. Spoke to Two-Dash Six (26) a few days back regarding doing some daytime sarge. I personally started off with a background that did daytime when I first came across tools from this community. If things are organized I tend to do something STATE based in exercises before heading on out the house. Primarily they are RJ based. I do a clearing ritual, which for me is a energized breathing exercise to keep everything in balance..go through Forms links for anything RJ related.


***When Dangerous came over to my house I was sucking two guys cocks at the same time. It was great! Dangerous joined in and I sucked his cock too. Dangerous has piercings.***


Driving down since I am in the burbs and Two-Dash is in the city. Beautiful day, the sun is out and I am looking forward to having a blast. Get by Two-Dash’s crib and we both get into are usual TALKATIVE vibe. We tend to make up fucked up songs with retarded guy humour and laughing at little things as well that some times is bizarre for the norm.


***TD made a post about having fun when in the club recently. He’s right. Whether I’m out with TD, Sickboy, Tenmagnet, No9 or Dangerous – we are always fucking around. To tell you the truth, I wouldn’t ever be I involved in anything in the world if I couldn’t fuck around while I did the task. Every job I will ever have in my life and have had will involve me fucking around – if it doesn’t - I will quit, it’s not worth it.***


Head on out at about 1:00 pm or so.

WE hit the street for a bit , Two-Dash along with myself decides to hit up a few shops in our downtown. I during the daytime take on the whole mindset of being curious towards what’s out there. Curiosity for me helps with making comments and for interactions with people as well. It helps me get under the radar also for me to lead into process language etc.


***I, during the Daytime like to suck cock in coffee shops. One time this guy poured a hot cup of cappuccino coffee on a guys cock while I was sucking it.***


We hit up a coffee shop, and Two-Dash does a 2 set for a warm-up. Goes in with his 80’s pop opener and we decide to move on. It was a warm-up to just get the vibe going. Two-Dash does not do a lot of daytime so he is getting used to slowing down a bit from his hardcore nighttime vibe and club style but within time he finds his groove. I moved more into my SS skill set and would not hesitate to use “Excuse me’s” or move in direct and come in playful with a fun energy and with a direction / outcome in mind.


***Yeah, Dangerous was doing well when he was in set. I could tell that he was enjoying himself. BTW, this guy dresses properly when he sarges. Actually, he dresses well all of the time – one of the best in the community. If you’re in Toronto, roll with this guy, look at how he dresses, joke around with him – he has a wicked sense of humor.***


I guess a few months I had some challenges recognizing when to go for #,email, or any contact info on a consistent basis. With all the info in this community etc I will admit to having been lost at times in the bunk of data out there. My objective was to use the David D “you got email” thing a lot or even jump into my ol SS “what steps do we gotta take or it’s too bad we can’t continue this” vibe for closing and such.

Two-Dash’s style is more kinda like TD cut to the chase of “what’s your number”.


***Actually, when I go for a number I always structure it like this:

’Give me your number’

TD taught me that way fucking back in the day. Don’t know how TD does it now – whatever. Don’t ask questions – make commands/demands.

Also, if you’re running a SOLID set – the girl should be asking for your contact info.***


Whatever works you know….as long as it gets to the pink. Obviously any one reading this can understand that I am still working through a lot of beginner stages…it’s all good.


***No you’re not dude! What are you talking about? This guy is so hard on himself – like many of the guys reading this – including myself at times. Dangerous is fucking good. I’ve rolled with this guy countless times – he’s good. Roll with him if you get the opportunity.

We need to be easier on ourselves when it comes to anything we do. Being hard on yourself does not make life more fun to live – it’s aggravating.

Answer me this everyone:
Any time you get mad at yourself for not doing a good job does it do anything for you?

Look at two scenarios here.

Scenario:
You roll up on a set and you exit after 6 minutes without any contact info.

Negative outlook:
- Fuck, I suck ass. I didn’t fucking even get a number. I’m never gonna get good at this. Man, when are things gonna get better. I don’t want to think like this.

Realistic outlook:
- I could have done a better job. I have it in me, but why didn’t I do better. I guess I learned something, but when is this gonna get better?

Positive outlook:
- Wow, I learned so much in that interaction. I am yet one more set closer to getting better and better. I did an unbelievable job in that set. Where’s the next set.
We can break each down. I’m kinda going away from the FR here, but I think this is extremely important.

Negative outlook:
Look at when I wrote ‘I don’t want to think like this’

You might think that’s a positive outlook, but it’s not. Any time you focus on what you ‘don’t’ want – you get that.

You get what you focus on (I learned this from my friend Dr. Wayne Dyer).

If you focus on what you ‘don’t want’ – you’ll get what you ‘don’t want’.

What to do: Shift your focus on what you want.

If you don’t want to strike out any more:
Don’t think – fuck, I don’t want to strike out any more, I’m gonna do anything I can to not strike out.

Instead:
Concentrate and hit the ball, I’m gonna keep my eye on that ball.

See the difference? You don’t mention at all anything about what you ‘don’t want’.

Realistic outlook:
A realistic is just a fancy word for negative. I got this from my friend Tony Robbins...and it's fucking true...I used to think I was a Realist. Realists are pessimists.

Positive outlook:
David D talked about this at his Mastery Seminar, as do other self-development guys, like Tony Robbins and Deepak Chopra…they talk about optimists having the most success in the world because they look at what they can do in the situation – everything they look at has a bright light around it. This view gives them what they want internally and externally.

Hoo-haa!***


Two-Dash decides to hit up a shop looking for some targets. I’m behind him walking towards the store but I notice a 2 set of chicks walking along the street about 10 feet away…. I time it properly.

The girls have not passed yet my back is facing them slightly “Yo Dash hold on let me ask them…hey we both are from outta town” both have stopped at this point and the 6 of the of the 2 set is smiling while the 7.5 is intrigued.

“Were hitting up (whatever city) for the day and are wanting to know some happening places to check out etc for (eat, party,)”.

I personally when doing daytime and on the street will go about my exploration and process as if I am looking for directions or I am a guy who is from the city originally but I am out of town every so often. We both are dressed well as usual looking like pretty money hip guys so I guess people can tell were not asking for some spare change.

Oh yeah the set, the 2 set gets into some mild fluff and Two Dash gets into some of his routines and does a takeaway a we go back into the store. I realized that on the street etc you gotta keep on PLOUGHING through for STACKING purposes because you can lose the STATE of the chicks that easily with mild pauses or searching for what’s next in your brain.


***I don’t recall doing a takeaway? Those chicks were cute.***

Regardless it’s all fun…everything is success for us…good times. Two-Dash is happy with the set and we move into the store, which had a lot of cool looking vintage stuff. Two-Dash starts into a 2 set in the store and we are having a blast enjoying the process.

***Oh yeah, The Black Market, it’s right near my apartment! Yeah, I opened the set and found out that they were 15 year olds.
Dangerous and I, combined, equal the age of 56.
These two girls equalled the age of 30.

Wait, maybe we shouldn't have ejected this set. 56 year-old men always fuck 30 year-old women.***


We hit back the streets and enter a HMV music store. I see a chick in the rock and pop section. I apply 3 secs rule and go in there. I kinda stand along the side of her as if I am looking for something particular.

I see her holding some Michael Jackson greatest hits and comparing which album to buy. I grab a CD within the Jackson section and start off with “ Which album you think is better” and get into some mild fluff and stuff regarding Michael Jackson. I realized after looking at her that she is a fuckin cutie. Light skinned black girl with more Anglo kinda look a very young like 19-21 max but mature at the same time and suggestible…nice. Slim body nice skin. Dress’s kinda preppie…it’s all good.


***Yeah, this chick was cute. She was a black dove of the night!***


I eventually start moving into some process language of speaking about how Michael Jackson creates those feelings when we were young “ And it does not matter where we are…it could be 20 years or so ..and you still hear Billie Jean and begin to feel that rhythm in your body( I’m slightly grooving..I’m a dancer so I know how to move in showing something in relation to dance with out coming off awkward) and I probably added in some self points and shit.

I got that whole doggie dinner bowl look thing going and take away my body at times and sometimes give a bit back when she is yearning for it. My calibration skills is what helps me pace the whole situation and go with the flow. I’m saying in my head now with a little self-talk of “I’m going to get her info”.


***Speaking of Self-Talk, I recently read a wicked book that David D suggests:
What To Say When You Talk Yo Yourself***


I go into some of the natural and culturally conditioned woman themes for a bit and talked about some guy talking about women in a seminar in my travels. It’s all slight BS but hey WTF.

Her friend comes in the situation and I decide to do a DHV with the best friends test and move into the Lipstick personality test gimmick that Mystery gave me a few months back. I don’t mind doing gimmicks, it has its own fun and times and helps in conversation flow and shit.


***Games/Gimmicks are great for set. You only want to run one of these in your set though (like Dangerous did). If you run any more you’ll get slotted as a Game Master. Trust me on this, you don’t want the label. I went through the trials and tribulations of being a Game Master in my early days. The Game Master doesn’t get chicks. Girls eliminate all sexual interest in you and just wait for the next little fun game – you little fucking tool Game Master!***


We talk so more fluff regarding sex in the city since her friend is holding the season two DVD in her hand. Asking her what character she is ..she tells me Carrie. I tell her that I love Samantha and shit and that I like Mr. Big as well. She tells me Mr. Big is too smooth. I’m just rolling and talking about experiences and my love for sex in the city the show and how I have season one etc.

My phone rings and I end the conversation. The chick that I was initial gaming is still standing around with her friend. I go get her email and she takes mine and confirms hers in the process to make sure I was clear in the letters from her own accord. Tell her “yeah maybe we can hook up hit up a lounge or something”.

Go to Dash. I was in the whole interaction for about a good 15 minutes or so. There was times I was even slightly nervous because certain aspects of daytime I get a bit awkward from the heat outside and a mild sweat comes along my brow but I PLOUGHED through and got the contact info and realized fuck that was fun and easy and some of my own anxiety can be resolved with just doing it over and over and conditioning myself in the behaviour…I’ll leave it at that and get into my inner game stuff in the future with you folks when I feel more comfortable.


***He’s right. Doing this shit over and over and over and over and over is the way to get this shit down.

If you feel weird – go out there and hit up some chicks.
The results you create in your mind are never as bad as what reality presents.
We can sit here and wish or we can go out and make things happen.

Get rid of all your idols on this site. Stop looking at people as if they’re better than you. This is killing you. Who cares what everyone else is doing. I’m not trying to be some motivational guy. The last thing I want to do is get you pumped up now and then later fade out. Talk to yourself with positively all of the time. Practice this. Read the book: What To Say When You Talk To Yourself.
Practice, every day, with reminders, being the guy you want to be. If anyone reading this thinks me, Dangerous or anyone else on this site is better than them in any way then 'this is a problem with your game'. ***


Dash liked the sarge and I just yapping my lips off happy with my outcome. We move on to a few more stores and I try email closing this alternative looking chick that works as a clerk in some store but she seemed to have excuses and I guess I did not create enough attraction while weaving in my fluff talk with slight process language etc.

We move on and keeping doing the same stuff and probably by the end of it all hit up about15-to 20 people each with a total of 40 within a 4 to 5 hours span. We did some mall stuff with retail chicks and fucked around in a few stores. Decided to walk towards the lair meeting in our city and I am practicing some imitations of a king walking into his domain and screaming out “silence” as we act out some shit together doing some fucked up improv that we do. I do it in the direction of this literally this midget looking 5 year old with a cigarette in his mouth and he stops and goes “biatch”…it was fucking hilarious. The kid must have been 7 years old max a street kid with his rug rat little kid gang…it was funny. Two-Dash can comment further on the humour.


***Oh yeah! Yeah, Dangerous and I were walking past this fucking Church. There was fuckloads of people around it. Cotton Candy, Polish people and delicious ice-cream (which I don’t eat because it’s not good for you).

So, Dangerous and I walk in to the Church to see if there are any sets to hit up. But when we walked in there was a mass going on. We both hate church, so we ran out of there like Scooby-Doo and Shaggy run out of Haunted Houses – we smashed through the wall leaving our body imprints. Lol! Fuck you.

Dangerous and I are walking and we see this little kid and we look at him. He turns around and says ‘Beeatch’. I thought is was funnier when it happened? Fuck.***


We see some of the local boys at the lair meeting. Finally meet Smooth lair president...it was a good time and the boys had some jokes regarding using baby wipes to take away the stench off stinky pussy before oral…good times!

Anyhow we both were beat by 8:00pm or so in the evening. Chowed down some Two Dash hamburgers (not poo) from his grill, watched South Park, and went home.


***I have a complex. I went to sleep for an hour and then I woke up and went to Fluid with Joy_Stick and Scorpius.***



Good times!!



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